Ngoko, wenza i-mess, kwaye ngoku kwakuyimfuneko ukusombulula ingxaki, ngoko wagqiba ekubeni ahlambele iqhude elikhulu lenkosi yendlu, kwaye wayenza ngokugqibeleleyo kangangokuba wade wamkhotha, ukuze aqhubele le nzwakazi. Emva kokuba eyifakile, wayenza kakhulu, wamfaka njengoko bekufanele, ihlwempu, wada wancwina, kodwa ukugweba ngendlela iqhude elinjalo linyamalala ngayo, isiphelo sinye, wayenayo le asiyiyo yokuqala.
Akucaci ukuba yintoni ebisebenza ngcono kwintombi, ukudlala isiginci okanye ukudlala ngedick kayise. Kwavela ukuba ubaba akayena nje umfundisi womculo olungileyo, kodwa naye ungumfundisi olungileyo wesondo, kuba akazange anqabe intombi yakhe, kwaye ngovuyo olukhulu waqhubeka i-caress eqalisiwe. Okwenzekileyo kwenzeka. Ukulalana kwabantu abazalanayo ngokungakhathaliyo kwenzeka kwizikhundla ezahlukeneyo ezinobunzulu bothando neemvakalelo.
Kwakhona ndaqinisekisa ukuba abafazi abancinci abaguquguqukayo bafanelekile ngesondo nakweyiphi na indawo.